There have been MANY times in my life when I have been asked to go to a "Mary Kay Party" or to get a "facial." Most of these times I have avoided all conversation with that person and ran. Why? It is called recruitment. I did not have money to spend on Mary Kay and so I did not want to buy any. On the other hand, I also did not want them to ask me to join. My thoughts: Pyramid Scheme. I looked into it a lot - it's not.
Here is how my story changed.
I met a lady a few months ago at a bridal fair. I have a business where I sell wedding announcements for my husbands cousin. I wanted to do this so I could eventually quit my real job (working with kids who have behavior problems). I had my own set up of wedding announcements and thought it was going fairly well. The bridal fair was set up in a hotel. The hotel lobby had people with booths and I ended up in a suite which was convenient for talking one on one with people without all the noise. Across the hall from me where 2 women selling Mary Kay. I have to admit I avoided them at first because I did not want to buy anything. But I ended up talking to them and even entered a contest to win a basket of Mary Kay products. They never called, so I was safe.
I saw one of the ladies again at another bridal fair months later. She offered for me to enter another contest, but with this one I'd have to agree to a facial. I did it without really considering the fact that I would actually have to make time for this. It was about a month later when I saw her in town. I was with one of the children I work with. We talked for a little while and she casually mentioned the facial and the contest, which would be ending a week or so later. I gave her my number. She called.
Stacy came over Monday morning. I used her skin care products and make up. I had been thinking lately that I need to take care of my face better so I can prolong the onset of wrinkles. I already knew Mary Kay had good products. However, there was no way I could afford it on our tiny budget of almost nothing.
To avoid the conversation of what I would be buying, I asked her how she started doing Mary Kay. She told me of her horrible financial situation a year earlier when her husband's business went down. She got the opportunity and even though she REALLY did not want to do it, she saw that it could help her and she joined. Now, a year later she is 1 month away from earning her 1st car and becoming a director. First thought: this only happens to some people.
Anyway, I was curious now and wanted to know a little bit more. I was VERY apprehensive and scared that I would fail. I am still scared. The lady who is my current director earned her car in only 5 months. They keep saying that all it takes is dedication and hard work. So, I am going to try it. I will work hard and be dedicated.
Although I haven't really even started yet, I have already had my emotional ups and downs. I am going to treat this as a REAL business that I am developing. The difference with this and my other business is - I am investing a lot more to start out with, but I also have people surrounding me who are very positive and uplifting. My husband even tells me every day that I can succeed in this. THAT has made a ton of difference in my attitude already.
The Mary Kay way? Does it work? Can I do it? I'm going to try. No one ever succeeded without trying first.
Dream crushers and negative people can stay away. I've heard it all, I have even read blogs against Mary Kay. But I need to know for myself. I will be a director someday and you can follow and see what happens.
Why? Because I don't want to be poor anymore. If I have a choice, I will choose to work hard so I can quit the job that brings me down and surround myself with people who lift me up. Yes, I have a bachelor's degree - but where are the jobs? I sure can't find one.